Gestures always accompany our words and help to express our feelings. Correct interpretation of gestures can tell us even more than words. In process of communication both sexes, use a wide spectrum of verbal and nonverbal seduction methods. Some of them demonstrate partner’s unconcealed intentions. Others, on the opposite, reveal his secret thoughts and hidden desires. In both cases, most gestures are considered to be subconscious. This is something that gives you an opportunity to read intentions of your partner.

Actually, your success in relations with the opposite sex depends on your abilities to understand the signals sent by your partner. If you interpret them correctly, you can send the correcponding signals and behave tactically. If you want to figure someone out, it’s better to combine that person’s words and gestures when analysing a situation. Whrn the words of your interlocutor are at variance with his gestures, you’d better trust the motions.

It’s worth mentioning that possess a larger spectrum of refined ways to attract attention and manipulate men. Besides, alluring gestures, long stares and adjusting hair or clothes are common for both sexes. For example, blushing cheeks and dilated pupils show person’s excitement. If you want to have a complete understanding between you and your partner, you can conciliate him in a fast and simple way by copying his pose and reflecting his gestures. Do it discretely and gradually, until you feel comfortable.

In case of long-distance relationship, guys want to know how to behave while meeting their ladies after the long months of correspondence over the Internet. Behaving correctly in such situations is crucial. So, here’s one tip that will help you understand if your female partner is sexually attracted to you.

Specialists say, before two people decide on a mental level if they need or want each other, their chemistry makes it obvious from the first moment of a face-to-face date. Every person has intimate or private space with the radius of 50 centimeters. If you want to check whether a girl likes you or not, try to get closer to her breaking this limit and step back after a few seconds. Then watch her reaction. If a woman feels free, relaxed, comfortable and allows you to enter her territory, it’s a signal that you can get closer to her. And vice verse, if she’s nervous, irritated and tries to get back from you, it means she’s not ready for a close relationship with you. Such response is given by your partner on a subconscious level, she will never notice you are testing her. She may even have not understood yet, if she likes or dislikes the person.

Also, if a lady is interested in the opposite sex, she subconsciously puts her feet a bit broader than usual. Even if she’s in a company of several men, no matter if she’s sitting or standing, her toes will be always directed towards a man she’s interested in. Crossed legs always show emotional dissatisfaction, though sometimes a does so if she is highly sexually excited. That’s why you should follow her mimicry and eyes as well.

By the way, women are about 1000 times more sensible to different smells than men. So, if they find some odor nice and gentle, it can greatly increase their sexual desire. Before seeing the lady of your dream, use some good toilet water, but not too strong. The next steps will depend from your first experience and meeting.

For most guys, traveling to a girls’ home-country is a life altering decision, as many men may find it hard to choose their partner without actually meeting in person. So, it’s utterly normal to take a “private tour” and meet several ladies. Most girls will understand such a course of action; Nevertheless, some may find offensive to know that there is competition.

Our best wishes in your search of a special woman, your !

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Et chri qui n’est pas d’accord sur votre choix? Alors pourquoi ne pas partir a Las Vegas!

Las Vegas, autre ses casinos, vous permet en effet de dcouvrir les sept merveilles du monde en un clin d’oeil. Vous voulez Paris et le charme de ses cafs? Pas de problme, rendez-vous au Paris Las Vegas! Ici, des votre arrive, la Tour Eiffel, l’Arc de triomphe sans oublier le clbre opra Garnier vous accueillent a bras ouverts!Dans une architecture trs Franchie style Haussmannien, vous retrouvez toutes les spcialits franaises et europennes au sein de ses fameux restaurants, sans oublier son casino.

Envie subite de vous dpayser. Rendez-vous Venetian! A Venise et ses gondoles… Quelle femme digne de ce nom ne souhaiterait pas passez sa lune de miel dans ce dcor pittoresque, et rvasser comme une jeune fille a l’aube de ses 20 ans, en attendant Casanova… Venez vous dtendre au Venetian. Cet htel recre pour vous les fameux canaux, les gondoles, les palais vnitiens et la rplique de la Piazza San Marco. Elgance et raffinement caractrisent le Venetian et ses 3000 chambres. Le Venetian abrite galement une superbe galerie d’art avec le Guggenheim Hermitage Museum. Et pour dcouvrir encore plus de l’Italie, direction le Tuscany Suites Casino

Pour les nostalgiques d’Astrix et Obelix et du fameux Ave Csar, prcipitez vous vite au Caesar’s Palace! Conue sur le modle de la Rome antique, le Caesar’s Palace accueille galement des championnats du monde de boxe et des grands spectacles de vedette.

Envie de vous retrouvez sur une le paradisiaque? Essayer le Tahiti! Ses bananiers, les tropiques et les plages de sable fin… Pourquoi trop attendre..

Mais me direz vous, cela ne remplace en rien le paysage rel du pays dsir. VRAI! Mais voyez tous les avantages en un clin d’oeil, vous pourrez bnficiez des meilleures expriences de chacun des pays, vous laissant une trace de nostalgie au point de vous dire “l’anne prochaine, sur, on part a …”. L’autre bon cote de la chose vous et chri n’tiez pas d’accord sur la destination, au moins chacun aura eu le droit de goter son plaisir et , pour les vacances venir, pas de problmes de qui prfre quoi, puisque vous aurez auparavant, grce Las Vegas, chacun pu valuer la qualit de telle ou telle place et vous en faire une grande ide qui facilitera vos choix a venir.

En effet, les chefs d’oeuvres comme la Tour Eiffel de Paris sont reproduites au millimtre prs dans les moindres dtails, grandeur nature. Donc pas de mauvaises surprises. De plus,aprs des heures de promenade d’un “pays” a un autre, rien de mieux que de se dtendre en jouant aux jeux de casino tel le et ses variantes.

Entering her second year as a widow, my dear friend Rachael was past the several stages of grief and closing that chapter of her life; not an easy task but necessary for anyone who has survival instincts. She began dating again and I couldnt have been happier for her. Sam was like a brother in a sense; a long time friend from our college days. At first it was dinner and theater tickets but soon developed into weekends at his Lake house.

Post menopausal, it didnt occur to Rachael to consider condoms. And in retrospect, she would not have asked Sam about his sexual activities there were things our generation didnt talk about. Therefore when her physician put her through a battery of tests because of her complaints regarding sudden weight loss and fatigue, she was shocked when she tested positive for HIV.

How does this happen at age 64, she wanted to know. But its a fact anyone can get HIVAIDS regardless of age from having unprotected sex, or sharing needles with an infected person. Latex condoms can help prevent, but not insure an infected person from transferring the virus to another. Because she did not know her partners drug andor sexual history, she was at risk!

Best friends since high school Rachael confided in me. We decided to do an in-depth study of patients 55 years and older with HIVAIDS. But we were immediately at a disadvantage because many, or should we say most, older people often mistake signs of this virus for the normal aging complaints — exactly as Rachael had and they are less likely to get tested. Besides, what patient in their senior years wants to discuss their sexual activity with a physician thats probably half their age? Not!

We soon realized the myths and misconceptions regarding all elderly citizens help put the barriers in the way of diagnosis and treatment of HIVAIDS. It is still assumed that old people live a life of celibacy and sobriety. Unfortunately, senior adults do not always conform to public images any more than teens do. Adding to this the doctors Dont ask, dont tell posture and were at an impasse.

Statistics do confirm that older women are becoming infected at a higher rate than older men. Without the fear of pregnancy, the post-menopausal woman who is uninformed of the dangers may become more sexually active with more partners. Even her biology increases her risk as the vaginal walls thin and lubrication decreases; thus, the membranes are more likely to tear during intercourse, providing access for the virus.

But whatever the reasons failure to communicate leads to failure of diagnosis in its early, most treatable stages. In many ways, HIV and old age converge and aggravate each other rather than conflict. For instance, memory loss may indicate AIDS-related dementia or Alzheimers disease. This distinction is important because dementia can be reversed; Alzheimers cannot.

As if the social isolation among senior citizens who have lost a spouse is not enough, it is multiplied many times over if their families realize they have HIVAIDS. Shamefully, this virus entered a society already having little respect for its seniors. Most adult children lack the patience, and precious few want the burden of caring for their parents in their final years.

While it is common knowledge that the face of AIDS is changing with the greater proportion being people of color, women, children and heterosexuals — what we never hear is that the face is also aging.

2006 Esther Smith

Milk Baths

The history of the milk bath begins with Cleopatra, who was renowned in antiquity for her radiant beauty. This beauty was said to have been because of the Queen bathing in milk scented with honey, lavender, or rose petals. Some sources even suggest that strawberries and raspberries were used on occasion to scent her bath. It is said that Cleopatras boat was so fragrant with rose petals that Mark Antony smelled the perfume before he saw the vessel itself. It is no stretch of the imagination to consider the fact that Cleopatra probably shared baths with both her lovers- Caesar and Antony. Science has reinforced the legend of Cleopatras beauty, showing that bathing in milk relaxes the body and softens the skin, the early scientist Pythagoras being the first to recognize the positive effects.

A recipe for bath milk similar to Cleopatras is as follows

Ingredients

14 Cup Powdered Milk
14 Cup Liquid Honey
One teaspoon Jojoba Oil
4dropsRose Essential Oil
5 drops Patchouli Essential Oil
5 drops Sandalwood Essential Oil

In a large bowl, mix all ingredients andadd to warm bath water. To create an ambient setting, light candles use rose, patchouli or sandalwood for best effect andor burn incense of the same scents.

Bath-Sheba

Another of the most popular love-stories based around bathing is the story of King Davids love-affair with Bath-Sheba. It began when he saw her bathing on her roof; the sight entranced him and he fell for her almost instantly, later marrying her. Their son was King Solomon. The legend is sometimes embellished, with poets describing the ardour in detail and suggesting any number of additives to the water she bathed in- few dissimilar to those Cleopatra is said to have utilized.

BathScents

The ancient Greeks associated beautiful scents with the divine. One particularly beautiful ritual included an immersion of doves in scented water. The doves were then released, sprinkling water over the gathering as a representation of the blessings of the goddess of love, Aphrodite.

In Roman times, Nero built special ducts in his Golden Palace that would pour forth aromatic water, while also strewing the carpets with rose petals some say he learned this from the liaison between Mark Antony and Cleopatra.

Napoleon Bonaparte and his wife Josephine often used scents to enhance the atmosphere, and used baths as a sensuous display of romantic interest. Josephine is reputed to have been fond of musk, while Napoleon preferred rosemary. Indeed, at St Helena, he used his incense burner until the day of his death.

Additional Considerations

To add to the relaxing, sensual atmosphere, it can often help to prepare a bottle of champagne or red wine. Red wine is especially compatible if sandalwood incense or bath oil is used. Keeping the lighting low, using candles if possible, accentuates the atmosphere. Soft background music can also be greatly helpful.

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Humour, some say, is the fruit of life, and this is especially true when it comes to picking up on a girl no matter where the location. Make them laugh, and I guarantee, that you are very close to getting their phone number and even to getting them to go out with you.

But, as we all know, making them laugh, is easier said than done. Precisely for those who find it difficult to come up with something funny to say, I am adding some funny anecdotes and wise cracks that you can memorize and then use in those situations where you need to get the girl in front of you to laugh.

1 The Prescription
Did you hear of the lady, who walked into the pharmacist and asked for arsenic?
The man behind the counter asked in wonder, “What do you need that for?
The lady calmly replied,” to kill my husband.”
The pharmacist was taken aback,” Are you crazy? Do you want to get us both into jail? And, anyway, why do you want to kill him? Go to a counselor. Get help for your marriage.”
The lady paused and from her purse she removed a set of pictures of her husband and the wife of the pharmacist in some very creative postures.
The pharmacist looked at the snaps, put them down and smiled,” lady, why did you not tell me that you have a prescription?”

2 The Tip Book
A wife calls out to her husband, “Have you seen the book, 101 Tips to Live for More Than a Hundred Years?
The husband sheepishly replies, “I burnt it.”
“What?” the wife shouted out,” why?”
The husband whispered back,” Because your mother wanted to read it.”

3 Range of Food
Looking at his wife fry meat balls in all kinds of shapes and sizes, Tom tapped her on the shoulder, “Why?”
His wife turned,” Because you asked for a variety of food.”

4 Mushrooms
Tom was picking mushrooms from the forest floor with his wife, when she picked up one and showed it to Tom,” Is this for eating?”
Tom smiled,” Yes. As long as you do not cook it.”

5 Driving Around
Tom greeted his wife when she returned home,” So, my dear, how was your first time driving all alone?”
His wife smiled coyly, “Do you want to hear it from me or read about it in the papers?

6 Drama
A couple are watching a film in their local theater when the wife snuggles close to her husband and points to the screen,” Do you think that they will get married in the end?”
The husband sighs,” Yes. These movies always have bad endings.”

7 The Library
Tom visited the local library, walks up to the librarian and asks, “Do you know where I can find the book, the Supremacy of Men over Women?”
The librarian conducts a short search on the computer and looks up,” you will be able to find it in the science fiction.”

Conclusion
While some of these might sound offensive, if you use them well you will be able to display not just a sense of humour, but also that you are exactly the opposite of the stereotype. How? Immediately, after you done, lean over and whisper, But I am not like that, and if you allow me to take you out, you will see that for yourself.

One of the most pressing questions concerning seduction I get from my clients and peers is,”How do I meet a pretty chic without losing face? What do I say when I meet her and how do I manage to get her to give me her number…”

These questions, it seems, are part of what keeps many men awake at night, terrified of the prospect of meeting a woman and seducing her as if it’s a no holds-barred wrestling match with a nine foot tall one eyed giant in a steel cage.

How ironic, often we forget that women are human too, and regardless of one’s exterior beauty, women, just like any member of society, have feelings and emotions and go through the same ordeal as any.

How sad then that, the most beautiful girls God has put on Planet Earth must go without the affections of a loving boyfriend, just because all men assume she’s taken, or “it is impossible for her to be single?”
Instead, pretty chics are subjected to lewd advances from jerks and half drunks who have more courage of approaching them than the perfect guy has guts to master the courage, let alone the thought!

Suffering Succotash!!

In today’s information rich and attention lacking environment, speed is of the utmost priority; it’s as if everyone’s a rabbit and in a super big rush to copulate with as many partners as possible in the shortest amount of time.

However, given the prospect that men are afraid of approaching pretty chics, copulation, I’m afraid, is only a frame of mind, not a physical endeavor!

That being said, how does one even begin to attract pretty women like a junkie is attracted to crystal meth?

You see, seduction is not an event, it’s a process.
Let me clarify; it’s like riding a bike or learning to play a musical instrument.
Seduction and attraction are a fine art that one must learn until they become a master.

When a master is at work, one cannot but stop to marvel at the shere genius of it all.
When Tiger Woods or Roger Federer execute Grand Slams in their respective sports or, as you would have it, Vanessa Mae strums her stradivarius, there is no accident to the reward and, as flawless as they both make it look, there’s been sweat and tears that went into making them Masters in their field.

I must admit, I started dating at a very early age, 16 to be exact and, by the time I was 20, I had lost count in the number of older women I’d been with.

Unlike most seduction gurus who spent most of their 20s dateless and in front of the tv screen scratching their heads wondering how to date fine women, I had already progressed into other areas of interest beyond dating in my 20s.

I am not saying this to brag or anything to that effect, but it pains me to see so much information flying about the internet on seduction and how to become a master simply by reading a book when your mindset’s not right!

I never!

If your mindset is that of failure due to past experiences with women, self esteem or other childhood misfortune that kids are always too eager to mete on another in the name of play or teasing, then no amount of reading will redeem you from the curse of failure.

I say this not as ridicule, but as a way to show you that, despite all your shortcomings, there’s a way to get rid of that excess baggage and begin a new journey into the unchartered waters of dating!

For instance, and this is more the norm than the exeption, if you come from a broken home and all you know is ridicule and pain, if all you know is failure; never a word of encouragement, then chances are; each time you meet someone you have an emotional affirnity to, your past experiences come home to roost
full circle, and you exhibit those characteristics playing in your life all over again… it’s like a rat on a wheel…the story keeps playing in your life ad infinitum.

Let me explain

Sales professionals World-over attend sales seminars and couching classes when they hit slumps. It’s because they realize that, to be masters in their professions, they need to horn their skills and break self imposed barriers that were not there in the first place.

When your mind is clear of emotional baggage and phobias, you have no barriers to break through; you only have opportunity to fulfill.

It’s like when you receive an unexpected bonus check or you receive a well deserved pay increase.
Your gait changes the instant you see that check stub or bank balance.
When you walk into your local grocery store or supermarket…you couldn’t care less what the World is thinking, because in that instant, you’ve attained the God consciousness.
Even if you’ve never approached a pretty lady before, chances are, you could approach anyone and make a fool of yourself a hundred times over…

Why?

Because your confidence levels are at an all time high; because you’ve suspended all your limiting beliefs, for the moment anyway, through your selfworth!

Ahh, the magic word; Self Worth!

Now, consider this flip side
Ever been to a zoo and watched lions in captivity? How pitiful they look – the King of the Jungle, all the mojo stripped out.
Chances are, let that feline loose and..the results?
I bet you the results are the poor pussy will die of hunger, because it has lost its natural killer instincts.

Now, if you’re a self confident young stud and have no qualms about approaching women, then good on you but, if you have issues from your past, and spend the majority of your waking moments biting your nails at the mere
thought of approaching pretty chics, chances are you need a coach, not a book
or some opening liners to meet women.

You see, women these days are darn smart; they can smell a con job a mile away and, unless your mindset is one of thinking like a champion, chances are you’ve bought one seduction ebook too many and are scratching your head, just wondering what it is you need to do to attract Alice from next door.

Remember that Nest egg investment commercial with a guy about to retire and he’s in an elevator with a 200lb Gorilla offering him advice?
The punch line is, Don’t listen to me, What would I know, I’m just a 2000lb Gorilla in the room with you…

Listen, don’t listen, it’s your free will.

Food for thought…