When you hear your lady say she’s too tired to make love, you need to understand that more often than not what she’s really saying is

I have given all I’ve got to everyone else and I have nothing else to give.
I need time for me.
I want someone to hold me.
I want someone to talk to me.
I want someone to be my “nurse” for a little while.
I need someone to care about “me” for a change.
I want someone to make me feel better

Now that you understand what shes really saying, you have a couple of choices to make. You pick the result you want from the following choices and carry out the instructions

Result 1 0 chance of S E X for the next several weeks

Tell her you despise the day you married her and that if there weren’t kids involved, you would dump her in a minute. Then, ignore her while making it very clear you are extremely mad at her for not putting out.

Result 2 10 chance of S E X tonight

Turn on your “best-behavior” and tell her you love her and that you understand how she feels. Ask her if you can get her a cup of hot tea or something. Then ask her if she would like for you to rub her feet.

The real point is that you are too late. You didnt take responsibility for making sure she was turned on and ready by bed time.

Thats right! As a man, you are the one who needs to take responsibility for turning your lady on so that she is ready for you.

Unfortunately, you may well be too late to change anything for tonight. But, the good news is that tomorrow is a new day. Tomorrow, you can cause things to be different.

What are you going to do to turn your wife on? What needs to happen so that you get a different response besides Im too tired from her?

When you come up with the answers, then your job is to implement!

Have you ever heard men complaining about women shopping?

Those are the men who don’t get very much “you-know-what” the S-word.

After I share this little technique with you, you will want your lady to go shopping all the time…

No matter who you are, you have “needs”. Men have their needs and women have their needs. We all know this.

We also know that when these needs are violated, we become very emotional and we start looking for some way to “resolve” and “repair” our violated feelings.

Guess what? Every time your lady goes shopping, her needs are violated. The display dummies are super-thin. The advertising pictures show nothing but exceptionally beautiful ladies. I could go on and on, but the point is, everything that is important to her is “one-upped” when she goes shopping.

Though she’ll probably never say a word and though she may act like she enjoys shopping, she WILL come home with feelings of insecurity and she will be emotionally upset deep down inside.

But, when you meet her at the door and immediately start “repairing” and “resolving” – meeting her needs in other words – it won’t be just a little while and she will be pulling down her … and spreading her …

Go send your wife shopping -

Encore en pleins prparatifs ou tout juste maries, vous vous rendez soudain compte qu’il faut aussi pensez au voyages de noces…. Dur, Dur … Que choisir? Paris et sa splendide Tour Eiffel, l’Egypte et ses pyramides ou encore le romantisme de Venise et ses clbres gondoles ou encore les Carabes?

Et chri qui n’est pas d’accord sur votre choix? Alors pourquoi ne pas partir a Las Vegas!

Las Vegas, autre ses casinos, vous permet en effet de dcouvrir les sept merveilles du monde en un clin d’oeil. Vous voulez Paris et le charme de ses cafs? Pas de problme, rendez-vous au Paris Las Vegas! Ici, des votre arrive, la Tour Eiffel, l’Arc de triomphe sans oublier le clbre opra Garnier vous accueillent a bras ouverts!Dans une architecture trs Franchie style Haussmannien, vous retrouvez toutes les spcialits franaises et europennes au sein de ses fameux restaurants, sans oublier son casino.

Envie subite de vous dpayser. Rendez-vous Venetian! A Venise et ses gondoles… Quelle femme digne de ce nom ne souhaiterait pas passez sa lune de miel dans ce dcor pittoresque, et rvasser comme une jeune fille a l’aube de ses 20 ans, en attendant Casanova… Venez vous dtendre au Venetian. Cet htel recre pour vous les fameux canaux, les gondoles, les palais vnitiens et la rplique de la Piazza San Marco. Elgance et raffinement caractrisent le Venetian et ses 3000 chambres. Le Venetian abrite galement une superbe galerie d’art avec le Guggenheim Hermitage Museum. Et pour dcouvrir encore plus de l’Italie, direction le Tuscany Suites Casino

Pour les nostalgiques d’Astrix et Obelix et du fameux Ave Csar, prcipitez vous vite au Caesar’s Palace! Conue sur le modle de la Rome antique, le Caesar’s Palace accueille galement des championnats du monde de boxe et des grands spectacles de vedette.

Envie de vous retrouvez sur une le paradisiaque? Essayer le Tahiti! Ses bananiers, les tropiques et les plages de sable fin… Pourquoi trop attendre..

Mais me direz vous, cela ne remplace en rien le paysage rel du pays dsir. VRAI! Mais voyez tous les avantages en un clin d’oeil, vous pourrez bnficiez des meilleures expriences de chacun des pays, vous laissant une trace de nostalgie au point de vous dire “l’anne prochaine, sur, on part a …”. L’autre bon cote de la chose vous et chri n’tiez pas d’accord sur la destination, au moins chacun aura eu le droit de goter son plaisir et , pour les vacances venir, pas de problmes de qui prfre quoi, puisque vous aurez auparavant, grce Las Vegas, chacun pu valuer la qualit de telle ou telle place et vous en faire une grande ide qui facilitera vos choix a venir.

En effet, les chefs d’oeuvres comme la Tour Eiffel de Paris sont reproduites au millimtre prs dans les moindres dtails, grandeur nature. Donc pas de mauvaises surprises. De plus,aprs des heures de promenade d’un “pays” a un autre, rien de mieux que de se dtendre en jouant aux jeux de casino tel le et ses variantes.

Marriage is one of the most enjoyable but also one of the most painful experiences that people undergo. It carries with it the whiff of romance and eternal bliss, but sometimes you get a pack of thorns instead.

How Do You Ensure Your Marriage Is a Bed of Roses and not Thorns?
One of the major ingredients that a happy marriage needs is a willingness to compromise. But that is much more difficult than it seems. Everyone will agree that they need to compromise, but what happens when the issue is not a simple and tiny one? What then? Who Compromises first? I am sure you must have said to yourself at one point or another that enough is enough. You will no longer be the patsy. You are an independent person and your partner has crossed the line. Maybe.

Maybe your relationship has died and you are just beginning to realize it. Maybe your sentiments are more passionate than romantic. Maybe you no longer love her.

Stop being a fool!
What if I told you that the solution to your marital strife is not divorce. Am I mad?

Look around. How many divorces do you know? Plenty. Me too. But are they really happier off?

What is the first thing that a divorced person does? He or she goes out and starts looking for partners.

Isn’t that strange? No. You say that everybody needs somebody to love. Maybe. I say that they had that somebody and they just let them go. So please stop being foolish.

Why not tackle your problems with a simple suggestion? A Game.

Games as a Peace Maker
Playing brings out the child in us and causes us to express more than we normally would. We also release bottled up frustration and let go of mental thorns in our outbursts of joy and anguish as we win or lose. Games unite people together and therefore I suggest playing together but if you wish one can play against the other. The game turns into a battle but only this time, after its over, you will both feel refreshed from losing all that bottled up pain and anger.

Games to Pick From
Try picking games that both of you like or at least somewhat active ones. You could even play hide and seek in the house or something else. If you do prefer playing cards, pick a game which does not go on for long and which requires some thinking like hearts, poker, bridge or rummy. Keep score and determine before hand that the loser has to do something for the winner. Chores is not a prize for the winner! If you lose you have to do something that that the other person wants for themselves like give them their favorite massage or cook them their favorite meal.

Conclusion
Games are a welcome ambrosia to love and will excite you as a couple to disregard all your frustrations and anger and deal only with the good. The anger and frustrations will not magically disappear, but now you can deal with them together calmly and in a good mood.

It is not uncommon for a man to want to have a night out with the boys, maybe play a little poker. It is also not uncommon to have the plans of men thwarted by their wives.

To help with this problem I am telling you the secrets about how to have some harmless fun at home without the wife catching on.

The best way to get rid of the wife so you can have a little Man Time is the easiest but most expensive way to do it. For her birthday you get her and one of her friends a trip to a weekend spa place.

Your wife will think you the best hubby ever and will never suspect you are going to throw a poker game in her absence, and the best part of this plan is that when it is over your wife will be so grateful for what you have done she may be more inclined to allow you to go out with the boys more often.

The next way is a little complicated and will only give you 4 or 5 hours of time at best, but it is much less expensive then a trip for 2. It may seem a little childish and yes I also have seen it on TV but a scavenger hunt scam can work.

The trick to the scavenger hunt is that each spot has to mean something. An example would be the first place you ever went on a date as one of the places she needs to go.

The end of the game is the most important make the last stop a restaurant and make sure to be there before she does. A good idea is to try to think of something meaning full in the area of where you live so you do not have far to drive, this will leave you the maximum amount of time to lay poker with your pals.

I have to admit this is not the ideal way to play poker, but getting away with even an hour of poker without her knowing is more excitement than any regular poker game could ever be.

Now that you have a plan to get her out of the house you need to be ready to go. The most important part of this is a large plastic drop cloth. This is so that if anything spills it will be simple to clean up.

Make sure you are ready to go with the table and chairs and make sure they get put back exactly the same as when you took them. You may want to use a digital camera to make sure you remember exactly how everything was before the game, because I promise you that you wife does.

If you send your wife on the trip I do not recommend using a cleaning service right before she comes back. If the house is too clean she will know something funny is going on

The last two tips I have is to make sure that you have a really nice gift around at all times just incase she finds out, and the other is that if your wife and your friends wives are friends do not invite those friends, if one guy gets caught you will all get caught.

Good Luck.